We may never never meet again, on that bumpy road to love
Still I’ll always, always keep the memory of
The way you hold your knife
The way we danced until three
The way you changed my life
No, no they can’t take that away from me
No, they can’t take that away from me
–George and Ira Gershwin, They Can’t Take That Away From Me, 1937
Coming to the end of the year. As with most every year, there are some things that beg to be forgotten– it seems like there are more of these than normal this year. Not my favorite year in many ways.
But even so, there are always things that I want to remember, things that I want to hold onto that mark this year. Some are bigger memories and some are tiny but everlasting– an impression of a smile or glance from another. A kind word from a stranger or a friend.
Things that remain with you through thick and thin. Things that stay when all else is lost.
Things that can’t be taken away.
Like the old Gershwin song says.
The song, They Can’t Take That Away From Me, was written by the George and Ira Gershwin and first performed by Fred Astaire in the 1937 movie Shall We Dance. George Gershwin died two months after the film’s release. Since that time the song has become one of the great entries to the American songbook, performed by a seemingly endless list of jazz and pop singers. There are so many great versions of this song by some of the greatest vocalists of all time that it’s hard to pick one that might stand out for everybody.
For myself, I always come back to the Billie Holiday versions of the song which she started performing in 1937. I like her early performances but the one below from 1957 is a favorite. It’s a great version that is a clean and bright production with top notch players–Ben Webster on sax and Barney Kessel on guitar– backing her.
Give a listen. And pay heed to those deep memories that no one can take away from you.

That is a great version of this song. Love it. My husband had an album by Fred Astaire.
For as great a dancer as he was, Fred Astaire was a wonderful interpreter of Gershwin’s music with his voice.
I had a neighbor, who knew the Gershwins but she didn’t have any stories about them.