“Hello babies. Welcome to Earth. It’s hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It’s round and wet and crowded. On the outside, babies, you’ve got a hundred years here. There’s only one rule that I know of, babies-“God damn it, you’ve got to be kind.”
― Kurt Vonnegut
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The words above are from the book God Bless You, Mr. Rosewater from the late Kurt Vonnegut. They are are spoken to the infant twins of a neighbor as part of a baptismal speech from Eliot Rosewater, the book’s protagonist.
It seems like a ridiculous bit of advice to speak over infants at a religious ceremony but the sentiment is striking in its simplicity and practical application.
In nearly every instance, kindness will make the situation better.
I don’t know why I am writing this today. Maybe it’s the shrill ugliness of our society at the moment, marked by naked tribalism and selfish greed.
Or maybe its our attack mentality that has become the norm, one where reason and logic are thrown aside and replaced with insults and slurs.
These negative aspects, the hatred and selfishness we are so often displaying, are not sustainable for us as a society. They are the signs of an undisciplined and unprincipled people.
On the other hand, kindness is a sustainable and enduring principle of guidance. It builds up, not tears down. A hand up, not a push down.
Like I said, I don’t why I am writing this. Maybe the thought was that we– maybe just I– needed a reminder that a little kindness does more for the world that all the ugly words spoken with hatred by one person toward another.
So, this is your reminder. We have a short time on this world. Don’t waste your time here being mean-spirited and vengeful.
Be kind to others. Be kind to yourself.
This made me want to hear a little Otis Redding this morning. Try a Little Tenderness. Doesn’t get much better than that.
Have a good and kind day.
You’ve reminded me of something my dad told me more than once: “Always begin by assuming the best of people. If you’re wrong, you’ll know it soon enough.”
That’s wonderful advice from your father. It’s something I’ve tried to practice for much of my life but recently I have to have a periodic reminder in order to keep it up. Kindness is not usually loud or showy so it tends to be overshadowed by the volume and chaos created by the angry and hateful. Just need a gentle nudge to look for it, to know that it is still there in these times.
Love this piece!!!
Hi, Tom– Thanks so much. So glad you like this piece. I think there’s something very noble in this piece, some sort of aspiration to rise above our baser qualities. Hope it serves you well, Tom!